WOMEN’S LIBIDO – ENHANCING IDEAS
If your libido has fallen to new lows, consider the possibility that your lovemaking has become routine, or even BORING. Many couples fall into a pattern with sex – which may have worked well for you for some time, but now leaves you feeling blah. In fact, you may feel you’d get more excitement out of watching Dancing with the Stars than having sex.
So do something different! Have sex in a different place. Meet him for lunch and make out in the car. If you never initiate sex, take charge! Try another mood – be playful and silly with him in the shower, or a bit mysterious by blindfolding him and then slowly touching him all over in a way that pleases you.
Try to think of your touch as expressing the very unique love and attraction you have for him. Daring to be fully yourself in the ways that you approach him as a lover, can add a level of interest and connection that you may not have felt before. Let yourself be creative – you never know what your mind may direct you to do until you are really present in the experience by listening to your body – as well as your heart and mind.
Finally, let go of wanting him to touch you in only the ways that you like best. After all, that may be part of why you are in a sexual rut and don’t feel like making love now! If you are impatient for your partners to touch you “just right,” you may be missing out on half of the sensation that he is giving you right now. There is no right and wrong way to touch or to make love. And the possibilities are limitless!
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